May 31 2010

Thank you Allah: for my wife

my wife

Her sweet smile. Her soft words, and her everything on how she behaves, make me believe that She is the most beautiful gift I have ever in my life.

I marry her On Tuesday, May 17 2010. It is not just in  time decision, but after very long wondering. wondering whether she is the right one for my wife. Many times, I doubt about her. Many times, I afraid I will make a big mistake in my life.

Now, she is my wife. She is in my side. I feel I am the most lucky guy in this world to get her. Her everything makes me happy in her side. The only word, I can say is:  She is the most beautiful gift I have ever in my life. I know, she is not an angel. She is not the perfect one. But, from her eyes, from how they behave, she can not lie that She loves me perfectly.

Oh, thank you Allah for my wife. Thank you for making my days very happy with her in my side. Keep it until the end of my days. In each single time, I always pray : Oh, God keep on making my wife and my daughters and sons later, to be my everlasting sweetheart, and make us, the leaders of muttaqin (those who fully worship to you). Make us keep on hold tight when life ups and downs, when there is cry and lough. Guide me to be good husband and honey for my wife.

Thank you my wife! Thank you Allah for my wife. I Love you!


May 12 2010

My Deepest Condolence of H. Iskandar’s Passing

“Innalillahi wainna ilaihi rojiun”. Everything comes from Allah and will back to Allah. Each single thing that is alive will die.

There is happiness and Sadness in Life. There is lough and Tears in Life. There is birth and  death in Life. That’s Life. That’s the secret of Life. Everything happens mysteriously. Even, we do not know what will be happened by tomorrow, we do not know whether we will be happy or sad. Life is really unpredictable and uncontrollable. Because we are controlled by the highest -level controller, that is Allah.

Today, May 12 2010, in the end of the day.  When the twilight fades and night is emerging. I am truly saddened by H Iskandar Death. I still heard his voices yesterday, but today He passed way forever. H Iskandar is My Rented-House Father. Where for more than 6 months I lived in. He was more than my Rented-House Father, but also teacher for me. I used to be taught by him, “Lecturing Kitab Kuning” in each time after Maghrib Prayer. He lectured me about Hadith and Fiqih ( Law in Islam). This “Kitab Kuning” lecture will be getting more intensive in Ramadlan Month. I really can not forget this fruitful memories with Him, it will always remain deep within my heart.

I can not say anything, but express my deepest condolence for his passing away and My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you H Iskandar.  I realy feel evanescence of you. Bon Voyage ! Allah blesses you in your second Life! May Allah forgives all your mistakes and May Allah give your  eternal rest and may your soul rest in peace.Amminn.

With deepest sympathy,

Cak Shon


May 9 2010

Looking For A Better Education For Future Leaders For Indonesia

65 years, I think  it is not young anymore for a nation. However, Education Problem in my Country have not found its clue. I am thinking of  “Character and Mental Education For Future Leader of Indonesia”. Is It the answer?

As lecturer in University, I can not stop taking a part at least to think about the future of education in Indonesia. Why Education? Because, I believe “a better eduction” is the only thing can make “a better future” of this nations. Only a better education can make this nation moving from stupidity, from drop behind condition. Only a better education can cut the poverty chain.

Surely, I am not the only one thinking about education. We have ministry of education, governmental department in charge regarding this education matter. However, I think education needs everyone participation and everyone awareness. Unfortunately, many education policy in this nation is strictly determined by Government. In which, I am rarely happy with Government policy such as National Examination as the only one measurement to judge whether a student pass from school or not. I never think it is a tool to make a better education, only the one who can not see the fact, who said like that.

The fact showed national examination make a scary. The scary make everyone including students and teachers to do everything, even the worst thing, to cope with. It is public secret thoroughly in this nation, the scary of national examination trigger massive fraud, even the worst academic  fraud, in the schools. Student is cheating, Student is helping another student, even the teacher is helping the student during national examination is common fraud happens in each national examination held.

If, that’s the matter, we can conclude that Education in Indonesia only teach Dishonesty to the students. It is very bad mentality, isn’t it? Can you imagine what will this nation to be in the future? If everyone taught Dishonesty in his school.

So, what is a better education for this nation?

In my humble opinion, the education in Indonesia so far is not good news for me. Concisely, I can say that the education only make student to be mark oriented, and student is prepared to be worker. The same thing, for education system, frequently educator and government only adopted from another developed country such as Student Centered Learning, Competency-Based Learning, and whatever.  However, it still does not answer the problem, because it is lazily taken from country that is strongly different in culture, characteristic, and mentality from Indonesians.

I am dreaming a better education system that can built good mentality of student such as integrity, honesty, critical and analitical thingking, hard working, problem solving and decision making, confident, self awareness, proactive attitude, etc.  NOT ONLY student with CGPA 4.0 but apatis and opportunist. I am hoping a better education system that can make student to be future leader, future agent of change NOT future worker and follower.

It is not easy thing, but it doesn’t mean impossible. As a lecturer, I dare my self to think out the box. Dare to try something new, that is unusual things. Just for sharing, two weeks ago, I tried something new in my class. I tried a simulation what I called “Executive Meeting Role Play” instead of ordinary lecture. In this role play my students  in a group pretended  to be CEO,  CIO, CKO, HR Manager, Finance Manager, SCM Manager, CRM Manager, PR and CSR manager, Manufacturing manager held a meeting to discuss the given business problems of their imaginated Business Organization. In my humble opinion, it is very good to stimulate them to have  a good leadership skill, poblem solving, decision making, analitical and critical thingking.  At least, it is interesting method to cope with saturation giving oral presentation and lecture in front of class :D (What a Lazy Lecturere I was :p )

Keep Fight ! The Education In Indonesia ! It is very challenging for me, deal with education developement In this beloved country. I do hope I can take a part ( I don’t care how little it is) in it .